Speak out, girls!

Girls do not chat enough!

OK, they may talk to other girls, but in inter-sexual friendships, girls more often than not are the ones who ask questions, encourage others to talk, the ones who build a psychological "stage" where the boy may unfold his inner life.

Does it matter? Yes, because which person in a friendship appears as "interesting" matters for the self-confidence of the other one. It matters because it's a question of developing personality traits like the ability to stand up for your opinions, or choosing a passive audience role. In strong friendships, those roles are evenly shared.

Of course this has been said earlier, but in my experience the problem persists. Therefore: Girls! Demand that your male friends are interested in how you are doing! (And boys, lets get better at asking those questions!)

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From Hallvord     on 2004-11-04 17:54:24

This page sometimes gets comment posted by mistake because visitors think it is a chat system. Sorry to disappoint you but it is merely an opinion piece (and I have even completely forgotten why I wrote it in the first place).

So if you got here because you searched for "chat girls" or something like that, move on to next search result. No action here :-)

From chitos_egypt_2010@hotmail.com     on 2004-11-16 19:56:45


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From Molly     on 2004-12-31 18:51:39

I do not care if I am talkin' 2 a
boy or girl as long as there is
no cursing!

From Molly     on 2004-12-31 18:52:57

Hello? Is ANYNE there? :-)

From Molly     on 2004-12-31 18:53:41

Hello? Is ANYNE there? :-)

From Molly     on 2004-12-31 18:53:46

I do not care if I am talkin' 2 a
boy or girl as long as there is
no cursing!

From Laura     on 2005-01-29 05:18:47


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From Adrian     on 2005-02-16 17:44:36


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From kelly     on 2005-03-05 16:48:08


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From Samantha     on 2005-04-13 20:16:30


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From Tamara     on 2005-04-19 19:42:02


Listen Ladies I don't mean to be a bitch but,we do not chat enough.Well i'm going to tell you what happend to me today.My cousin name is Tashara and she was going out with this Seventh grader name malcom.anyways he played her for a white piece of shit (a Girl)
No offence all my white girls but, that shit just blowed my nerves.anyways he let her sit
in his lap and everything. and i had to talk to him and make him say sorry.well that's all of my story.

From mohamed     on 2005-04-23 17:03:46


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From mohamed owyes     on 2005-04-23 17:05:04


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From STHEPHANIE     on 2005-05-10 20:48:36

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From Jasmine     on 2005-07-04 02:17:02

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From Jason     on 2005-07-09 09:50:10


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From kelly     on 2005-07-22 08:44:19


hey there girls how r u all? just wondering if there r n e lesbians in this chat room tht want 2speak?

From memet     on 2005-07-24 05:39:18


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From alex junies     on 2005-08-02 14:53:37

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From sara     on 2005-08-05 20:57:40


hey if ura lesbian email me :
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From Natalie     on 2005-08-09 13:17:29


wanna chat eneyone there p.s how old is evryone

From charlotte     on 2005-08-10 06:03:43


i know init there is ardly no sites to chat and go on kids chat no 1 ardly chats to u anyway will some one email me i am bored as fuck if u have msn i will talk too u on there it is bellistbell@hotmail.co.uk

From Ali     on 2005-08-15 08:12:00


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From Saghir     on 2005-08-19 15:29:13


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From zoe     on 2005-09-23 08:59:58


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From Dangerious MAN _TURK_     on 2005-09-28 11:11:30

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From tasha     on 2005-10-06 07:52:47


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From Darine Al Hashimi.     on 2005-10-12 08:38:47


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From Kaio     on 2005-10-17 08:32:48


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From kaio     on 2005-10-21 06:40:25


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From beachboy     on 2005-10-21 14:58:12


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From sandra al hashimi     on 2005-10-24 09:59:50


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From christina     on 2005-10-24 11:04:20

hello
I am from spain
I am 12 years old

From oliver     on 2005-10-29 06:53:40


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From Croatian Boy from Switzerland     on 2005-11-01 10:49:24


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From courtney     on 2005-11-01 11:53:18


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